Rev. Bill Lyon

Aimless with Purpose

Aimless with Purpose, Insights

Synchronicity Unfolds – Cheviot

My plan to wander a new neighborhood in the city… evolved. I hadn’t planned to go to the village of Cheviot. It’s not technically a Cincinnati neighborhood.
But—so what?

I’m wandering without why. So why not adapt as the spirit moves—this time, nudging my car a few miles west. It came to rest in a municipal parking lot surrounded by a whole new set of flâneuring possibilities.

My first stop was a small alterations shop with a sign promising same-day service. As it happened, I had a jacket in the car that needed just that. Alas—this was not the day, nor the jacket, for same-day miracles. But maybe something good would happen, if I were to beleive the windshield sticker on the car next to mine.

Still, the seamstress offered kind advice and a few suggestions for places to explore. And one warning: “Don’t go left.”

So, of course, I turned left.

That’s where I met Pacita. She was settling herself onto a bench from her rollerator — her favorite bench, she told me, because it sits right across from the fire department.
“When I fall down,” she explained matter-of-factly, “the nice EMT men come over and pick me back up.”
Good plan, Pacita. We shared a few stories — of family, of faith — and blessed one another before I continued on, this time turning right.

A few blocks later, I came upon a small hardware store — the kind Home Depot once imagined it could replace. But in this west-side village, people still value the personal touch and the neighborly handshake.
I recognized the store’s name — a friend of mine used to work at another location years ago. I wasn’t shopping for anything in particular; I just wanted to remember that feeling of belonging.


Still, I found an item that might solve a problem that had been vexing me. The man behind the counter agreed it would do the trick.
He assumed I must be new in town, since he’d never seen me before.
When I explained my Tuesday wandering practice, I asked if he’d ever worked with my old friend who’d retired eight years ago.
“That’s my brother!” he said.
Though they looked nothing alike, I smiled. “Of course you are.”

There are no coincidences when flâneuring. And if I had any doubt of that, my stop at the local thrift shop dispelled it completely.

Now, I’m not a thrifter. But I have friends who are, and curiosity nudged me inside this cavernous store. Room after room, a jumble of treasures and oddities — but few clothes, and certainly no men’s section.
No matter; I wasn’t looking.

And then — there it was. On a rack marked “Women’s Blazers,” one dark brown microsuede jacket that looked as though it might fit a broad-shouldered man.
On a whim, I tried it on. Perfect. Five dollars.

I preached in it the next Sunday — and I have never, in sixty-two years, received more compliments on a single piece of clothing.

Some of us spend our lives seeking earth-shattering miracles. Others deny the possibility altogether.
Wandering without why reminds me that small miracles abound — if we free ourselves to notice them.
Even in a little village on the west side of Cincinnati.

Aimless with Purpose, Insights

My first wander — Northside

Even without a “why,” one has hopes of what might happen on a wander.
I might experience something new. I might meet someone fascinating. I did.
I might find reason to smile, laugh, make someone else smile. All those happened as well.

Hungry at the outset, I wandered into Morsel and Nosh, where the friendly folks greeted me with an inviting menu of unique sandwiches. Knowing I’d need to come back to try them all, I settled on the Chicken Pesto Panini. It didn’t disappoint. Neither did the unique Ginger Espresso beverage at Sidewinder Coffee next door.

Like so many of the small businesses in Northside, there’s a cooperative spirit that makes it feel totally normal to bring take-out from one place to another to enjoy in the shared outdoor area behind the shops. Conversations with strangers come easily there.

I found that same spirit throughout the afternoon.
I met some young artists hanging fliers for an upcoming show.
We played a quick game that I often carry with me — more on that in a future post.

When I passed a shop that intrigued me, I went in.
There’s a combination bike repair shop and art gallery called Spun.
The name is apt — the owner spun some tales about his art and his passion for bicycles.

And nearly an hour after wandering into Anybody’s Dream convenience store, I emerged with a new friend. Reginald Stroud owns a store that still sells penny candy. (It costs two cents now, but still!)
His story is rich. At sixty-plus, he still teaches martial arts, though his own mobility is a bit limited.

His story echoes the other side of gentrification — the kind that both improves and threatens neighborhoods.
In 2014, he was ousted from his storefront in Over-the-Rhine to make way for new development.
Now, as Northside becomes another attractive area for redevelopment, he and others wonder:
Will there still be affordable spaces for us?

Plenty to wonder about on this wander through Northside.

Scroll to Top